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N4Talking to real people · Sep 15, 2026

How to say "haircut" in Japanese: る, る, る and the sentence that means you did it yourself

Japanese splits "cut your hair" across three verbs — る (cut with scissors), る (clip short with a machine), る (shave with a blade) — and there is a fourth problem on top: かみりました literally says *you* cut it. The natural way to say you got a haircut is かみってもらいました.

This is a small conversation that comes up constantly, because hair is the safest small talk there is and someone will notice you had it cut within a week of arriving. It is also a good illustration of a bigger habit in Japanese: the language cares about who did the action far more than English does.

The basics

The three verbs

Verb Reading What it does
きる Cut, with scissors. The general one.
かる Clip or crop short, usually with clippers. Also used for grass.
そる Shave, with a blade. Skin-level.
そろえる そろえる Trim to even it up
すく すく Thin out, take weight out

かみりました。 — I cut my hair. (literally: you did the cutting yourself) ひげをりました。 — I shaved. (a blade, on the face) みじかりました。 — I had it clipped short. (clippers, a crop)

る is worth noticing because it is also the verb for mowing a lawn (くさる). The image is "cut down close to the surface", which is exactly what a clipper does.

Why かみりました is usually wrong

Japanese does not blur the line between doing something and having it done for you. かみりました states that you performed the cut. If a barber did it, the natural sentence is:

かみってもらいました。 — I got my hair cut. (literally: I received the favour of having it cut) 美容院びよういんかみってもらいました。 — I got my hair cut at the salon. (polite, the standard sentence)

〜てもらう marks that someone did the action for your benefit. It is the same structure covered in あげる・くれる・もらう, and this is one of the most common everyday places it shows up.

In practice, native speakers do sometimes say かみった about a salon visit, the way English speakers say "I cut my hair" when they mean a barber did it. But the てもらう version is the one that is never ambiguous, and it is the one that sounds like a fluent speaker rather than a translated one.

Where do you go?

  • 美容院びよういん (びよういん) — hair salon, used by everyone.
  • 美容びようしつ (びようしつ) — the same thing; both signs exist.
  • 床屋とこや (とこや) — barber, casual word.
  • 理容りようしつ (りようしつ) — barber, the formal word on the sign.

One trap worth memorising: 美容院びよういん (びよういん, salon) and 病院びょういん (びょういん, hospital) differ by one small sound. びよういん has four beats, びょういん has three. Getting it wrong produces a genuinely funny sentence, and it is a good drill for the small ょ.

Beyond the basics

What do you actually say in the chair?

The staff will ask 今日きょうはどうされますか ("what are we doing today?"). These cover most answers:

全体的ぜんたいてきみじかくしてください。 — Please make it shorter overall. (polite) 2センチくらいってください。 — Please cut about two centimetres. (polite; giving a number is the clearest option) 毛先けさきをそろえるだけでおねがいします。 — Just a trim on the ends, please. (polite) かるくしてください。 — Please thin it out / take some weight out. (polite — かるく literally "lightly") 前髪まえがみ眉毛まゆげうえでおねがいします。 — Bangs above the eyebrows, please. (polite)

Two more that save the appointment:

  • このままでおねがいします — "same as it is now, please" (a maintenance cut).
  • 写真しゃしんせてもいいですか — "may I show you a photo?" Showing a picture is completely normal and removes every vocabulary problem at once.

The words for the parts

Word Reading Meaning
かみ / 髪の毛かみのけ かみ / かみのけ hair (on the head)
前髪まえがみ まえがみ bangs, fringe
毛先けさき けさき the ends
襟足えりあし えりあし nape, back hairline
もみあげ sideburns
ひげ facial hair generally
枝毛えだげ えだげ split ends

ひげ covers beard, moustache and stubble as one word; if you need to be specific, くちひげ (moustache), あごひげ (beard) and ほおひげ (cheek/side) exist.

ひげ and はげ

These two are one vowel apart and mean very different things: ひげ is facial hair, はげ is baldness. Saying はげをりました instead of ひげをりました turns a routine sentence into something else entirely.

The general point is worth more than the joke: Japanese has a lot of short words separated by a single vowel or by vowel length, which is why pronunciation length is not a detail you can leave for later. おじさん and おじいさん are the textbook version of the same problem.

Colour, perms and the rest

  • カラー or める (そめる) — to dye. かみめました.
  • パーマをかける — to get a perm. The verb is かける, not する.
  • ブリーチ — bleach.
  • セット — styling.
  • ばす (のばす) — to grow it out. かみばしています ("I'm growing my hair out").

かみばしているので、毛先けさきだけおねがいします。 — I'm growing my hair out, so just the ends please. (polite — the single most useful sentence if you are between lengths)

Talking about someone else's haircut

The safe compliment is short and about the change, not the person:

かみりましたか。似合にあいますね。 — Did you get your hair cut? It suits you. (polite, warm, standard)

似合にあう ("to suit someone") is the verb you want. 可愛かわい and かっこいい are fine with friends but can land oddly at work; 似合にあいますね is safe with anyone.

Common mistakes

  • Saying かみりました about a salon visit. Understandable, but it literally says you did it. ってもらいました is the clear version.
  • Using る for shaving. ひげをる is scissors on a beard. A razor is る.
  • Mixing up 美容院びよういん and 病院びょういん. Four beats versus three. Worth drilling once.
  • Saying はげ when you mean ひげ. One vowel, completely different sentence.
  • パーマをする. The verb is かける: パーマをかける.
  • Describing a style in adjectives instead of numbers or a photo. みじかく is vague; 2センチ or a photo is not.

Practice

Say each answer out loud first. Questions 1 and 2 are a pair: the same event, two very different claims.

1. Translate: かみりました。

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I cut my hair (myself) — the sentence says you performed the action. Grammatically fine, factually usually wrong.

2. Translate: かみってもらいました。

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I got my hair cut — 〜てもらう marks that someone did it for you. This is the natural sentence after a salon visit.

3. Which verb do you use for shaving with a razor?

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る (そる) — ひげをる. る is scissors; る is a blade at skin level.

4. What does る mean, and what else is it used for?

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To clip or crop short — also to mow grassくさる. The image is cutting down close to the surface.

5. Ask for about two centimetres off.

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2センチくらいってください — a number is the clearest instruction you can give, and it needs almost no vocabulary.

6. Ask for just a trim on the ends.

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毛先けさきをそろえるだけでおねがいします — そろえる is "even up", 毛先けさき is the ends.

7. What is the difference between 美容院びよういん and 病院びょういん?

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びよういん (4 beats) is a hair salon; びょういん (3 beats) is a hospital — the small ょ is the whole difference.

8. Say you are growing your hair out.

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かみばしていますばす, in the ている form because it is an ongoing state.

9. Fix this: パーマをしました。

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パーマをかけました — perms take かける. This is a fixed verb–noun pairing, like 風邪かぜをひく.

10. A colleague has had their hair cut. Say something safe and friendly.

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かみりましたか。似合にあいますね。似合にあう ("it suits you") is the compliment that works with anyone, including at work.

FAQ

Do I need to speak Japanese to get a haircut in Japan? Not really. A photo plus 2センチくらいってください or このままでおねがいします covers most appointments. Salons in bigger cities are used to visitors and many take reservations online.

Is tipping expected at a salon? No. Tipping is not customary in Japan, at salons or anywhere else, and it is not a case of politely declining — the system simply does not include it.

What is the difference between 美容院びよういん and 床屋とこや? 床屋とこや (barber) traditionally serves men and offers a shave; 美容院びよういん (salon) serves everyone and focuses on cutting, colouring and styling. The distinction is softer than it used to be, and many men book salons.

How do I say I want it "the same as last time"? 前回ぜんかいおなじでおねがいします. If you go back to the same stylist, this is the most efficient sentence in the language.

Why is 〜てもらう used so much in Japanese? Because Japanese tracks who benefits from an action. Getting something done for you is grammatically marked rather than implied, which is why it appears in everyday sentences where English uses a plain past tense.

Can I just say かみった like native speakers do? Yes, in casual conversation — people do. But if you are still building the habit, ってもらった is worth saying deliberately, because the てもらう pattern transfers to dozens of other situations: おしえてもらう, なおしてもらう, 手伝てつだってもらう.

Vocabulary from this article

Tap the block to select all of it, then copy. In Anki: File → Import, note type Basic, separator Tab — the first column becomes the front, the second the back.

切る	きる — to cut (with scissors)
刈る	かる — to clip short; to mow
剃る	そる — to shave
そろえる	そろえる — to trim even
すく	すく — to thin out (hair)
髪	かみ — hair
前髪	まえがみ — bangs, fringe
毛先	けさき — the ends of the hair
襟足	えりあし — nape hairline
ひげ	ひげ — facial hair
美容院	びよういん — hair salon
床屋	とこや — barber
病院	びょういん — hospital
染める	そめる — to dye
伸ばす	のばす — to grow out, extend
似合う	にあう — to suit (someone)
眉毛	まゆげ — eyebrow
枝毛	えだげ — split ends

I'm Yuuki, a Japanese teacher based in Tokyo. I've taught on italki as a Top 1% teacher and watched over 1,500 anime. Sorting out る, る and る is the kind of thing that eats ten minutes of a lesson — it looks like trivia until you are in the chair and the only sentence you have is the one that says you did it yourself.

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Sources: the author's own lessons and standard reference grammars.

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